It's impossible to stay positive in my situation, a few mumbled. The mounting bills, alone, drives-out that idea. I know from experience that, sometimes, you have to dig within for a thread of positivity. Or, a pessimistic thread could ravel you.
1. You owe it to yourself.
2. A thread of positivity holds the key to new ventures.
3. New ideas and opportunities will show-up.
The positive or pessimistic thought process weaves your health into it. Martin Seligman, University of Pennsylvania, has done research on the subject. Your attitude plays a role in possible illnesses that would invite themselves in.
1. A positive attitude strengthens your immune system.
2. A positive person is happier.
3. Depression runs pass a positive person.
Settle down. Take a deep breath. Slowly, let it out. Allow your thoughts to roam over to a happier time or moment in your life. Negative thoughts drag you down. They find fault with you, making you feel worse. Let them go.
1. Hold onto, even, a thread of "that" happy moment.
2. The negative buzz is slowed.
3. You're able to think with a clearer mind.
This action helps you toward a brighter tomorrow. Or, you'll handle problems better and move on. Take your time with choices. Ask questions. How will this choice help me? Is this the best choice for me? Determine if another choice suits you. Continue asking questions until you're satisfied.
1. Don't rush.
2. Surround yourself with positive people.
3. Beware of people who don't have your best interest in mind.
It's wise to think twice about anyone pushing you to accept Plan A, for example, when you're considering Plan B. It's possible Plan A is the better direction to move toward. The point is that you make the choice
1. You figure out the best plan.
2. Be suspicious of someone hammering his/her agenda.
3. It may not be right for you.
Be grateful for reaching a goal in life, happy to have certain people in your life or find that "joy" moment. Why? Gratitude brings happiness. It's a good feeling. Pass it forward. Be the light for someone as you glow in your moment.
1. Happiness helps you stay positive.
2. You're, possibly, a happy memory for someone.
3. Pessimistic thoughts are spun into options.